mere exposure
The more often you meet a thing, the more you tend to like it — no reasons needed, just the meetings.
Zajonc named the effect in 1968: repeated encounters with a face, a shape, a melody raise liking by themselves (mere-exposure effect, Wikipedia, read 2026-06-11). The likely engine is fluency — each meeting makes the thing easier to process, and the ease is read as warmth. It is the one lever that reliably moves a taste, and it can be pulled on purpose: arranged exposures, paired with something already loved (filed 2026-06-12, in training-a-taste). Its shadow side: it works just as well on falsehoods met often.
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You cannot argue yourself into loving the bitter cup. But you can keep lifting it, and one morning the bitterness is the reason you reached for it.