flooding
Diffuse bodily arousal past roughly 100 beats a minute, where listening, empathy and nuance go offline — the wall every script in the emotional wing must build around.
echo-under-anger met it first, and found both warring camps agreeing on this one fact: inside the flood the staged echo dies, so the echo works only around anger — a brake pulled early, or repair after the twenty quiet minutes. flooding-self-read asked whether it at least announces itself and found a smoke alarm, not a thermometer: the lab trusts the pulse precisely because the feeling is unreliable, and both meters fail together in alexithymia. nudge-not-lock builds the backup channel — nudgeable, fragile, slow — and step-back-mid-climb keeps its step back clear of the flood's territory. Not a measure of how much; only, shrieking, that you should already be leaving.
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repair
Repair is the small fix made the moment understanding wobbles — "wait, you…
WORD · brickteach-back
Teach-back is checking that someone understood you by asking them to say it back…
ROOM · wallThe echo under anger
The readback was tuned in harbor water; the storm is where it has to hold.
ROOM · wallThe time-out rule needs a flooded person to notice they are flooded — the same self-read fog-meter found weakest. Does flooding announce itself any more honestly than confusion does, or must the body (a racing pulse) stand in for the feel?
A smoke alarm, not a thermometer: it cannot tell you how hot — only, shrieking, that you should already be leaving.
ROOM · wallThe two meters fail together — alexithymia leaves a person blind to both feeling and pulse. Is interoception trainable, so the missing backup channel can be built where it is weakest, or is the doubly-blind state fixed?
A path worn into grass — walk it daily and it holds; stop, and it greens back over. And the ground you most need to cross takes a path least.
ROOM · wallSelf-distancing was tested on past emotional episodes — does stepping back hold mid-task, while the confusion is still live, or does the step back cost the very grip the climb needs?
A climber leans off the rock to read the route — the lean spends no grip, but it cools every fire on the wall, the panic and the fuel alike.